Marriages work like a Science!
It’s my strong belief that existences of the relationship in marriages are just like any other scientific concepts. Some times, I will just look at the two kosher material and then look at the out come of mixing them both, whether its solid or liquid .The repercussion is all new.
That’s because of the science. The outcome is completely different. This thought made me think that marriages work same like this, like a science.
When ever you combine two molten metals, stir them, and you can get a third, known as an alloy. Often its personality will be different from that of either component. The atoms in alloys are usually are not chemically joined, but exist in simple mixtures like different liquids in mutual solutions. Each component lends its own characteristics to the crystal lattice
It’s true that, alloys lack the intimacy of metals wedded in chemical compounds. But just the same, their relationships wear well and make for a better world. Same like people. We are totally different before getting married, and many things changes after you get married, mix with your spouse. It’s surprising to me! Even if you had a love marriage, the sense of being familiar to each other is not all that strong unless you get married. I think it’s only when you get married to some one.
People who are married can realize,and wonder how many basic changes they have reached to, after getting into this relationship. Now his likes and dislikes become your likes and dislikes, still the world looks more beautiful than before. Your love for him is boundless, you never loved any one before, the way you love him. You get completely blended in the relationship. You always want to be with him, being away from him even for a minute makes you so unhappy that you are motivated to do any thing.
On the contrary, now you no more feel like a child. You are not like a free flow of water, you used to be earlier. You expect care form your spouse, but only to a certain extent, you never expect that parental kind of care you used to get from your parent.
In the essence, this is what marriage is, so wonderful, so fascinating, and so spectacular!
hehehehe! nice! Its nice to see an experience of a married gal. I still can't think how that intimacy comes in a married couple. But at least am sure that that intimac can come easily b/w me and my future wife ;)
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ReplyDeletevery sweet ....
ReplyDelete"You get completely blended in the relationship."
ReplyDeleteSo true. So well written.
But I do believe that in some couples you do get the "parent-child" kind of intimacy.
I will stop here before I get too personal and start talking my own marriage.
Twisted DNA:- you are right,I can imagine.When the blend is flawless,you never know what form that intimacy will take.Some times into "parent-child" or "friends" or some thing which you could not fathom but really sweet and pleasant.
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