Every one has some negative and disconcerting and some positive and constructive imagination going on in the brain. Both of them are right with their own logic. At certain point your negative thoughts will seem more congruous with your current bad situation. And at the same time, some part of your brain will tell you that, you are digressing from the path of acquisition of any thing creative in your life because of that negative thought.
It happens to me all the time. Negative thoughts will prevail more often on me especially when I am very happy or when I am extremely sad. When I am very happy, every thing is good and then suddenly a part of my brain will force me to think .What is the reason, why am I so happy, I have no reason to be so happy and content? Etc –etc.And then the gush of all kinds of negative thoughts will capture my brain. I will find my self the most miserable person on this earth. All the reasoning appears true to the farthest extent to keep my negative thoughts alive. At this point the negative thoughts become so strong that they kill my entire positive attitude, my self esteem which I have developed after a long struggle.
Apparently when I am sad, I do not have to work to recall all the bad thoughts .It comes on it own. And it comes in all its bloom. Very powerful, very strong and keeps leaching on me for a long time. I have no control on myself. And it overpowers me.
Ironically in the beginning I was not able to identify my problem so logically and with a clear state of my mind. But now I have got a solution. And the solution is, I need to work very hard to not to let the negative thoughts capture my mind. Those negative thoughts are my enemies. I have realized that even if I kill the enemies they come back with more power than before and when I feel the weakest. Earlier I used to make a mistake of undermining the power of my enemies. I had lots of confidence upon me to defeat these enemies. But now I do not underestimate the enemy. Enemy is always more powerful.
I have realized that there are other people to lower down my self esteem; I will not increase that number by adding myself to it. I will keep striving to improve my self everyday, so that I can prove my self the better one.
This blog will work as a reminder for me. When ever I am the captive of my enemies, I will try to muster up all my courage and open this blog and go through it once and remind myself of the steps I need to take to get rid of them.
thats great!.. the true self encouragement is the motive to remove the -ve effect!.. The -ve imagination is like a whirpool.. the more you think the more you suck into it!... and the more its is difficult yo get out!.. the best always to give one huge perturbation..!.. thats when we ourself realize that I am think too much -ve and stop at one stop and think or do something.. where we ourself get lost in something!..
ReplyDeleteBeautiful encouraging post WOW!
ReplyDeleteHappy Diwali Sharda!
Keshi.
Its very natural to have negative thoughts. In fact, -ve thoughts come to our minds more often than the +ve ones.
ReplyDeleteWe just need to learn to keep these thoughts under control.
I'm sure you can work on it and defeat ur enemies :)
Sharda:
ReplyDeleteWe have such negative thoughts on all situations. But we need to keep it closed and only keep the positive enrgy which encourages, motivates and keeps us happy.
i think i know how to keep my negative side under control, though it is pretty tough. :D
ReplyDeleteYeah this is so true. Nice motivational post. We all do get negative thoughts but should make an effort to shrug them away.
ReplyDeletei love u for writing this... i read it at a time whn i needed to hear those words; whn i needed to know that i m not the only one going crazy fighting with my enemies... thanks sharda :) ur post just reflects my thoughts :)
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