What is real?
When we watch T.V or movies,kids look so awesome,they look so bubbly and full of pleasure ,who can make you forget life's all worries.This is more or less true even when you see a friend's kids,or kids in other distant family in real life.However the scenario is completely different when you are confronted by your own kids with whom you have to spend 24/7 .Then the picture is not so pleasant all the time.
I said "confronted", because at times they become so argumentative,that you have to become a straight laced parent to handle the situation.They will come up with all kinds of excuses to get their way,yet you have to keep your composure or things get even worse.
In spite of all when you talk about them to your friends and family you have to put the cover up.Even the close family members wont understand that kids can be mean and they develop their own nature.But 'no',people will still judge you,most of kids bad behavior can be put down to your way of up-bringing.
Once when kids get reprimanded for some thing bad they did ,after that even when they do good things they are not acknowledged.Behind every chute,aww-invoking things my kids do ,and I write about,there are tantrums,and plenty of worries,and negotiations,and balancing.But do I have a choice ,other than after every tantrum I embrace them again as if nothing happened.
When we talk about other people's life the only thing we see is bright, happy parts, and we feel miserable, wondering why our lives are not one big party.We feel so unfortunate some times ,so much that we start regretting was it a right choice to have kids?
I said "confronted", because at times they become so argumentative,that you have to become a straight laced parent to handle the situation.They will come up with all kinds of excuses to get their way,yet you have to keep your composure or things get even worse.
In spite of all when you talk about them to your friends and family you have to put the cover up.Even the close family members wont understand that kids can be mean and they develop their own nature.But 'no',people will still judge you,most of kids bad behavior can be put down to your way of up-bringing.
Once when kids get reprimanded for some thing bad they did ,after that even when they do good things they are not acknowledged.Behind every chute,aww-invoking things my kids do ,and I write about,there are tantrums,and plenty of worries,and negotiations,and balancing.But do I have a choice ,other than after every tantrum I embrace them again as if nothing happened.
When we talk about other people's life the only thing we see is bright, happy parts, and we feel miserable, wondering why our lives are not one big party.We feel so unfortunate some times ,so much that we start regretting was it a right choice to have kids?
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