So right.
Yesterday I asked my almost 7 year old daughter , "Is not talking the right way to show your unhappiness, anger and frustration ?" For a small girl as she is ,her answer sounded so profound to me.If adults start thinking that way life will be so much easier.She said , "keeping quiet is not the right way to respond to any thing ,as it dosen't tell the person why she/he is angry,and so it does not solve the problem". She also said that by not talking it shows the other person how little you care about him/her. I really could not think through this as clearly as the way she thought.Some times there is lot to learn from small kids .They have such straight forward answer to every thing, but at times I think ,that is the right approach we adult should also have.