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How to avoid conflicts among spouses!

The title seems so mundane,so ordinary isn't it? Because  everyone has to go through this someway or the other.There is no escape most of the time.And honestly no one can say ,they dont think about it . At least I do.So lashing out will be the easiest one ,the same is with keeping silent too.Moreover these two ways can annoy each other which is no good.So in all these years what I have observed work best are these :- 1)When you think the matter is going out of hand try to escape immediately to the bathroom. No one can say anything or object and ask you to continue the conflict.Take enough time in the bathroom to let things cool down a little. 2)Pick the safe topics you know about which will most likely never lead to conflicts,such as weather,food,childhood stories,grandparents social events in the family etc-etc. 3)Never talk about travel.I always had bad experience with it. 4)Never talk about how loved you are in your family ,because most likely ...