My Views and Ideas: Life and Parenting

After I graduated I did not ever  think that I will sit at home and become a housewife .I had big dreams for my self even after I failed in getting admission in  a medical college. I never forget that I did not achieve what I dreamt for.Just recently when I was reminded of my perpetual dependency as a housewife ,it occurred to me, if I am even fit to guide my daughters to the path of success.I always question myself if my daughters should even follow my lead in any journey of their lives. I always make sure to reinforce the knowledge in my daughters heads ,that always reach for independency in life.Do not make the mistakes I made by just throwing away my self into a relationship which has its own boundaries. When the novelty of relationship wears off  ,which always does,you will be left with nothing other that regret and helplessness.

There is a lot of news about China ending the one-child policy.Couples are happy that now they can have two kids,that now their kid will have a company ,a play mate , a life long companion. I am happy we never have to go through the restriction of one-child policy. I look at my daughters and wonder, what they would do without each other.When ever they are separate from each other they seem so lost. It is such a common occurrence to catch them hugging and happily talking,telling stories,updating them about their whole day's stories to each other.They have mountains of things to tell to each other. However sometimes they are their worst enemies too.Although that is very temporary.They either make up quickly  or look at each other pensively and then their  anger vanishes very soon. Both sisters mean so much to each other that I cant think of them as a separate entity at all.