My Views and Ideas: Life and Parenting

Every one has some negative and disconcerting and some positive and constructive imagination going on in the brain. Both of them are right with their own logic. At certain point your negative thoughts will seem more congruous with your current bad situation. And at the same time, some part of your brain will tell you that, you are digressing from the path of acquisition of any thing creative in your life because of that negative thought. It happens to me all the time. Negative thoughts will prevail more often on me especially when I am very happy or when I am extremely sad. When I am very happy, every thing is good and then suddenly a part of my brain will force me to think .What is the reason, why am I so happy, I have no reason to be so happy and content? Etc –etc.And then the gush of all kinds of negative thoughts will capture my brain. I will find my self the most miserable person on this earth. All the reasoning appears true to the farthest extent to keep my negative thoughts...

A couple of months back I had an interesting dream. One of our friends is going to become a father in the month of November. Since I have seen his wife, we talk to each other often; she shares all her experiences with me. We talk about her new feelings of being pregnant, how she feels when the baby encounters tiny kicks inside her tummy. Some where inside my heart, I am very happy for her. After that talk I completely forgot about this topic. But I don’t know what thought of mine was running inside me, in my subconscious state, that few days back I had a dream about it. I saw that, the father of that unborn child laid down that child in front of my door steps. The child was chute and very sweet, with wide eyes and was smiling. After laying him down, he went away. I was standing at my door and watching the baby. My heart was full of love, and wanted to hold the baby. The baby was chuckling and giggling, and throwing his tiny hands and legs. Suddenly I saw that half of his body is hangin...