My Views and Ideas: Life and Parenting

How days take turns is hard to believe.It seems like just few days back  my daughter was born ,I did not even have enough of her childish treats that my younger daughter was already here.After the birth of my younger one all of a sudden I felt that my elder daughter has become very big(even though she was just 2 years 9 months old).In her subconscious state of mind she also feels that ,however her childish behaviors are still as it was. But yesterday I could not believe that she really is my little comforter I have always wanted.I was full of tears for some emotional reasons even though  I was trying to hide from her.As  a keen observer she bends her head to peep in my eyes and asks me:- "Mamma your eyes are full of tears" I said yes ,it is because of all the smoke in the room from  all the cooking I have done. She says "No mamma it dosent look like smoke tears,it looks like you are crying in real". I tried to convince  her in many wa...

Happiness has become such a hard find entity for people that sometime I wonder does becoming happy really require so much or some times just by little things you can become happy. People preach about happiness to other people ,give ideas how to become happy and how to bring happiness in your life.At the same time they are unable to see that what they themselves are doing is so much against what they are preaching .What can I say ,I do not know whether to laugh or throw the same preach back to the person with little bit of my own vision. I have two little kids .They need me almost all the time for every thing and anything.Their need for me is not only necessary but that is how kids are.They want me to be around them all the time.I feel important , proud and lucky that they need me so badly because I know few years from now they wont care as much about me.At that time I will want them to come sit with me and spend some time from their busy schedule,studies however right now th...