Holistic Health Beyond the Gym

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The Wake-Up Call I Didn’t See Coming

“I was doing everything ‘right’—yet I felt completely off.”

It started on an ordinary Tuesday. I had checked off all the boxes: gym session, low-fat yogurt and fruits for breakfast, hydration on point. But by mid-morning, I felt sluggish, irritated, and honestly—disconnected.

Later that week, I skipped the gym and went for a slow walk. No step count, no phone. Just me and the sidewalk. And oddly enough, I felt more “well” than I had in weeks.

Rethinking Movement: Goodbye Perfection, Hello Consistency

“Some movement is always better than none.”

I used to believe a workout had to be 60 minutes of intensity or it didn’t count. Now? My movement includes:

  • 20-minute home workouts (sometimes in pajamas)

  • Long walks without keeping track of steps or calorie count.

  • Light stretches between cooking, talking, or while waiting for shower water to become hot.

I no longer chase numbers. I chase how I feel after the movement. And that small shift has made all the difference.

Real Food, Real Life

“I stopped fearing food and started working with it.”

I’ve done the calorie counting. I’ve been afraid of carbs. I’ve “reset” more times than I can count.

Now, I plan simple, nourishing meals that fit my actual life:

  • Frozen veggies? Yes.

  • Instant oats? Also yes.

  • Chocolate? Always yes (but maybe not at midnight).

No more labeling foods as “bad” or “cheat meals.” I eat what fuels me and makes me feel good without spiraling into guilt. I don't restrict any bood item in my daily eating habit. I just chose moderation in what I eat.

Sleep Isn’t a Luxury—It’s a Pillar

“No amount of kale and spinach can fix chronic sleep deprivation.”

I used to power through the week on five hours of sleep and call it “hustle.” Spoiler alert: I was constantly exhausted, cranky, and unfocused. Every morning I would wake up with eyes and groggy feelings. 

Now, I treat sleep as a non-negotiable:

  • Screens off by 5 PM

  • No tea or caffeine after 2 PM

  • Eye mask, white noise, boring book

I don’t track REM cycles—I just make rest a priority, and my energy levels thank me every morning.

Mental Health: The Workout We Forget

“Journaling doesn’t burn calories—but it clears mental weight.”

Mental wellness was the missing piece of my puzzle. I used to think a workout would fix everything. But:

  • Some days, I just needed to cry.

  • Other days, I needed silence.

  • Often, I needed to say no.

  • Somedays I just wanted to go back in memory lane, my childhood days, my parents.

Now, I journal, talk to family, friends and my daughters, and log off social media when it starts to drain me.

Letting Go of the “Ideal” Routine

“I don’t need to be perfect. I need to be consistent.”

I let go of 10-step morning routines and productivity guilt. My routine changes with the season, my workload, and my energy.

Sometimes:

  • I meal prep.

  • I meditate.

  • I even drink water without an app reminder.

  • I stand by the window and leisurely look outside the window, the birds, the trees and people walking.

Other times? I just survived the day. That counts, too.

What I’ve Learned So Far

“Wellness isn’t about control—it’s about awareness.”

Here are a few reminders that help me stay grounded:

* Your wellness doesn’t need to look like someone else’s
* Walking counts. Cleaning counts. Cooking counts. Dancing in the kitchen counts.
* You’re not lazy for resting.
* Laughter, joy, and connection are health goals too.

Did this resonate with you?

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