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Communication and Intimacy

Women need intimacy. They always try to connect to people. What draws them to do that, I have no idea but at times, it surprises me a lot. Perhaps this is the reason women are the ones who always get into trouble because of their wacky nature .As familiar as it is ,women have always been infamous for creating trouble and back biting. It has always been like this and no matter what they never change them selves. I am always quizzical about it and being a woman myself, always try to find a good answer for it. I have always realized that in a party of men, the talks would be very superficial, very ordinary. On the other hand, any party, which involves women, gets very personal. You never know after a day or two what rumors will be flying in the sky. When women talk to each other or even to a man, they just open up their heart, and expect the same with others, which leads them into trouble. Every woman knows this, but we continue to do the same thing. Once women see people, they cannot k...

Valentine's Day for me!

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What can be the perfect gift for Valentine’s Day! I think people should stop making a big deal for this gift concept on Valentine’s Day. More over There is not so appropriate day to give a gift or not to give a gift to your loved one. Valentine’s Day is not only for lovers, or couples, it is for who ever you love be it your brother, your sister or any relation. It is so fascinating that we find some way to flourish our love and care to our loved ones. The best way to celebrate Valentine’s Day for me is to have some quality time with your valentine. A romantic evening, a nice dinner, a long and hearty chit chat, holding hands in hands, looking into each other’s eyes, what can be better than that! Snuggle with your sweetheart, make a memorable love, a kind of love you have never had before ,which can refresh you every time you think of and just free flow in that moment. Nothing can be soothing than that.

I have problem asking for !

I am very introvert by nature. There was a time when I used to be very outspoken, very witty and very demanding. I would just say it or ask for some thing I wanted. I would not care what the consequences will be; the fact that I want some thing was enough for me to go for it. It was my good fortune that I was never reprimanded or for that reason put any stop on that nature. As a result I kept doing that until now. As I grew up, things changed, and I have changed exactly by 180 degree. There is no similarity between me then and now. I look at my self and I can not say I am the same person I used to be. Why that happened, I do not have a clear answer for it. Perhaps I had lots of expectations which when not fulfilled; lead me to the path of not opening myself any more. Earlier when people would say that the best time of your life is when you are a student, when you are a kid, when you live with your parents. At that time I would laugh my lungs out. I would think,"no the best time of...

My Imagination !

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By now all of you must have figured it out that I am a big food lover.Not only do I love having good food, I also love cooking.One of the things which make me stress free is cooking.When ever I feel stressed out and start digressing towards negative stress ,I think of some dish which is time consuming and start working on that. Within few minutes I am in my own world of joy and happiness.I like this attitude of mine because this cooking not only keeps me away from my negative stress but the result of this work comes out to be wonders at times.Some times I am so pleasantly amazed on my discoveries . This has always been one of my favorite hobbies since childhood.Once I came very depressed from school.For some reason there were many people at home.But my foul mood was not allowing me to mingle with people.I thought I would rather help my mother in kitchen.My mother is my best friend when I have to share my problems but that day mother was all busy in her work,so she didn't have time...